Thursday, January 6, 2011
Women are "F-ed" up!
As we all know, women are emotional creatures by nature. Of course we have the ones that "Act" like they have no feelings, but we all know the truth. Regardless if you "act" like you don't care, and you have your "fuck the world" mentality, everyone knows, you do care. Why? To put it bluntly, because you are a woman. It is your very being to be emotional. Because of this, we are fucked up!
There are gonna be so many women who don't agree, but I am speaking truth. We as women get so caught up in our emotions, we wonder why people don't take us serious. We wonder why people are forever saying there will never be a female president. We feed into it, and then place blame on PMS. Come on now, a lot of women use birth control which lessens the symptoms of PMS. There are also other things out that help lessen it as well. Sometimes, we just bitch for no reason. Women are attention whores. If we feel like we are not getting the attention we need, more than likely, we bitch, then bitch some more when we tell liethat there are no good men in the world. They are all "dogs." WRONG! Get your act together ladies. WE know good and damn well when things get rough, we blame men. They're not doing enough, not making enough, ect. Now, don't get me wrong, there are men out there that don't give a fuck, yet thoseare the ones we keep going back to, knowing their wrong.
Women need to learn how to be alone. WE are so caught up in "having a man," we usually choose the wrong ones because we don't want to be alone. Get the fuck over it! You have to learn to love yourself enough so that you can see the bullshit from 10 million miles away! How are you going to do that when you are blindly stepping in the shit everyday? I am not saying there is anything wrong with having someone in your life. We're human. We are made that way, but don't get with someone for the wrong reasons.
Let's get back to us being emotional. This is the number one thing: women's emotions. For the most part, they run rampant. A lot of us find ourselves in love after the first date. Please!! You don't even know him, but of course you can just feel it. WRONG! How can you love someone you don't know. You may not even want the same things in life. . You may want a family. He doesn't, or vice versa. We have to stop going off feelings and start thinking with a sound mind. You may have a connection, but there has to be more. You have to meet each other on more than one level. We also have to stop blaming our black men for EVERYTHING! They hurt just as much as we do., we have to stop putting up a wall and put ourselves out there. Stop being judgmental. We have to realized that society not only still puts our race down, but most often than not, our black males. We are just making it worse when we place blame on them just because they are a man. Just because we have a black president doesn't mean things change that quickly. WE have to look at ourselves and "woman up!" Be that woman God intended for you to be and not what everyone "thinks" you should be. Love yourself and stop fucking up! LOL! It's okay to be emotional, but when it starts to have an effect on your life and your relationships, that's when you have to look into yourself and find out what's really going on.
Sorry if this offends anyone, but it needed to be said and I like being the messenger!